Wednesday, May 22, 2013

New Address

Whooohooo....

Finally!!! It's official now. Since last night, I and my better half have been occupying our new flat.

A new home means a lot of things to do. Cleaning the home is one thing. Well, it ain't that big a deal, but I'm thankful it's only 45 sqm. I'll hurt my back when mopping the floor if it's larger. LOL.

Living in an apartment is not as easy as living in a landed house. The regulation is tighter. Everytime we buy big things like sofa, beds and tv, we have to ask for a permission letter from the building management. It's somehow exhausting.

All the works, though it's not really finished, are worthed. They all were paid up by the moment I was going to bed and someone was hugging me from behind. There was a goodnight kiss from the man I love most. And most of all, this morning I woke up to him. It was amazing. And you know what, I'm going to experience those thingies every day and every night. Wow!!!!

But not just that, as I told you earlier, those amazing feelings come with price. There will be time when I disagree with his thoughts. But hey, that's the essence of living together, eh? We will learn how to agree to disagree.

Finally, I would like to thank everyone who somehow help us to make one of our dreams come true. Our parents, my sister and everyone... And my dearest, Jesus Christ. It's a blessing indeed.

One whisper from my better half that I can share with you : "Look, we are living our dream".

Monday, May 13, 2013

The Sofa

This is the last week of my employment here. Two weeks from now, I'll be effectively working for another bank. It is a blessing indeed. Time flies by. And it also means I and K will start a new life together soon.

I am all excited. Lately, we fought a lot though. There were many differences between us. Even for small things.

We did argue while choosing a set of dining utensils. Silly, eh? Not really. I will laugh my ass off everytime I remember.

But K always said, "These are colours in our life. They make our relationship beautiful, ain't it? When I fight you, it doesn't mean you are my enemy. I never see you as a contradiction of mine, I see our differences as colours."

I do believe his saying. I believe that this relationship is worth fighting for.

Then there was a sofa. We visited Informa at Living World, approximately 3 weeks ago. I did like a sofa that would fit our apartment. But K said it was too fat and narrow. While for me, the most important thing is, this sofa should fit our apartment. We didn't fight but we argue.

Last Thursday we went there again. And after spending more than 3 hours looking for sofa, console table, mirror and everything else, we came to an agreement to buy that very sofa. We sit there for a while.

This sofa was our witness when we argued. This sofa was a proof that we have our differences but we manage to have one decision. This sofa will be our witness as we start our new life. And this sofa might be with us for a long time.

And as this sofa, there will be a lot of things that will be our witnesses. May all of them record all the beauties of our relationship, through good and bad times.