Sunday, July 6, 2014

His Love, His Ways

It's an ordinary Sunday. I was laying down, enjoying my 'me-time' slash lazy day, while K called.

"Hey, do you want Koi Teppanyaki?"

It was 6.30 pm and he was out with his family, you know, Sunday is family time. We dedicate Sunday for our family. It is how we manage our time. He will go to his parents' house or go to mall with them. Since my sister went back to my hometown, I was practically alone in this city, so other than having Sunday service, I have nothing to do but enjoying myself home. Sometimes I join K, but today I felt like I was staying home, to get some sleep. 

As you may know, I am into words. It is applied also in relationship. I need "I love you" now and then. But, K is different. Saying "I love you" is not his thing. I often tease him with "Do you love me?" which he always replies "No!". But I know he does. Lol.

He expresses his love for me in his ways. The question above is one of them. I'm a grown-up. I can manage to find my own dinner. But he knows that I am going nowhere on Sundays and he knows that I am too lazy to step out finding food. That's why he called asking me if I wanted some dinner. He had his dinner, so he only bought it for me. He always does that not just today. 

I know it's not much. It's something that parents do to their kids. But still, it is love. And I'm grateful for that.

We'll always have different ways of expressing our love towards each other. But I am okay with it, I am thankful, for I love the way he "says" it to me.