Path is one of many social medias that I get myself into lately. Most of my path friends like to share quotes. It is mostly about love. It was fine, totally fine with me. I enjoyed every quotes until I realized something. It was about how people would change for his loved one. It was about what someone would do for his loved one. Each quote itself was not wrong. But I question the motivation behind posting those quotes. Instead of addressing ourselves, we address those quotes to others. Worse it satirized others. It is like we are saying that we are deserved to be treated as in those words. We forget that others also deserve to be treated the same way.
As I say many times before, as many people say these too, we can't change people. We can't expect people to change for us. They will learn to be better, but it takes time. It takes a lot of patience. Before we know our partner, he has lived in his way for maybe 20 years or so. It won't be easy to live in a different habit in a matter of clicking fingers.
All we have to do is accepting.
For C, and for everyone else who is close to anyone and wish the situation would be different, it is time for you to ask yourself.
Do you understand him?
If you don't, will you try?
Will you consider to accept him for what he is?
He can change, but again, it takes time, and there's no guarantee the time will come.
If you can't accept him, maybe he's not right for you. Don't push it too hard.
For C, and for everyone else who is close to anyone and wish the situation would be different, it is time for you to ask yourself.
Do you understand him?
If you don't, will you try?
Will you consider to accept him for what he is?
He can change, but again, it takes time, and there's no guarantee the time will come.
If you can't accept him, maybe he's not right for you. Don't push it too hard.
Love is not only about me, it is about us.
Love is not about demanding, it is about giving.
Love is not about expecting someone to change, its is about accepting who he really is.
Love is not about finding who is right nor wrong, it is about walking together reaching our dreams.
I love the definition of loves that you posted on the last.
ReplyDeleteFor the quotes: "if someone really loves you, he will understand you", i think that's totally right. I mean you will accept him just the way he is. Maybe you are not easy at first, but i think as the time goes by you'd try to understand him because maybe that's really his habit.
On the other hand, that bf has to control himself too. If you know that your bf can't stand of the smoke of cigarette, don't smoke in front of him =.=
Love could be work as long as there's an understanding in both of two people