Yesterday I got a shocking news about my friends. They got a really big problem in their small family. Long story short, Iistened to the wife's story. I won't tell you what the problem is, it is not my liberty to say. What I am telling you is in our conversation, I came out to her. It was my 5th coming out to a friend.
"Is your partner a male?"
"Why do you ask?"
"Just a guess. But you don't have to tell me. But if it is, then congrats. Gender is not that important."
Cool, eh?
Then today, I had a conversation with her husband. He told me that he knew. He was a good friend of mine. But because of our business, we drew apart.
"Thanks for not keeping a distance from me." I said.
"I never thought I would keep distance from you. I hate you didn't tell me. But yeah, I don't blame you."
Cool?
I still had that fast-beating-heart, when I typed my coming out sentence though it wasn't my first time. I guess I will always have that.
And I still had those relieved feelings. It is always nice to have those acceptance.
I was wrong because I thought they couldn't accept me. Turned out that they would be okay with who I am.
I will keep coming out I guess. Lol.
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